IN MEMORIUM
BERNIE BRENNAN
23.11.1941 – 13.01.2020
Bernie lived a full life, enjoying his fishing, hunting, worldly travels and being a great dad and husband. He was a strong man, full of love, smiles and good humour. He was never afraid of telling a good joke and having a great time.
Bernard knew and loved Fr Coleman throughout his life. He and Jan took special care of him in his later years by sharing a weekly meal followed by a well-earned rest at their home overlooking Sydney Harbour. His generosity was unlimited and his ability to make and keep friends for life was unique.
The last few years had been very stressful for all the family as Bernie had chronic illnesses. He was a wonderful man loved and cared for dearly by his wonderful wife Jan. Now may he rest in peace.
JOHN AMBROGIO
08.04.1932 - 19.08.2019
John Ambrogio was the gentleman Italian barber from Crows Nest, always immaculately dressed and greeting everyone with a big warm smile.
Everyone who came to sit in his barber’s chair received a first class service, including a coffee and a friendly chat, with many of his loyal clients becoming his friends. Father Paul Coleman was one of his oldest and dearest friends with John cutting his hair for over 40 years.
John loved being out and about along Willoughby Road and catching up with the locals, and many who knew him referred to him as an icon of Crows Nest. Whilst his work always brought him great joy his heart always belonged at home. Nothing made him happier than sharing a good Italian meal cooked by his beloved wife Connie and surrounded by all his family.
CHRIS VIRGONA
17.07.1943 – 05.01.2019
Chris was a good, kind man – full of faith! In his late 20’s, he made the 30 day retreat. This experience shaped his life. Chris was a LIFE enthusiast – family man, 6 children [Bridget born with Spina Bifida], 16 grandchildren, entomologist, daily Mass goer, parachutist, classical music lover, movie tragic, cook, cake decorator, greyhound trainer, sever, home barista, land-rover owner and keen traveller.
Aged 35, Chris suffered a stroke caused by a congenital heart abnormality. More strokes followed and severe rheumatoid arthritis caused daily pain. His enthusiasm for life stayed strong. Paul Coleman nurtured Chris’ faith involving our family in a dynamic parish community where joys and sorrows were shared! Chris and Pam came to St Joseph’s to be with Paul in his health struggles. It was our turn to be with him.
The community of St Josephs prayed for Chris as he endured his last health crisis. Here we all celebrate the gift we are to each other as we share, in faith, our many joys and sorrows.
CATHERINE DOHERTY
04.05.41 – 22.01.2019
Catherine was born on 4th May, 1941, one of 12 children of Michael and Mary Kate Doherty, a strongly Catholic family from Kilgarriff, Charlestown, Co. Mayo, Ireland.
After attending school at Cloonlyon National School, and, later at Ballaghaderreen Vocational School, Catherine migrated to England in 1958 and, later, to Australia in 1973.
Catherine first met Father Paul during his time at Mary MacKillop Chapel. She became a dedicated follower, attending his Masses, where possible, there and, later, in North Sydney Parish and at St Josephs.
Catherine is remembered for her warm personality, her kindness, gentleness and friendliness, her strong Catholic Faith, and her fortitude, resilience, faith and optimism during her final illness.
JUDITH COATES
10.03.1943 – 29.06.2017
Judi’s family, her dedicated Christian belief and medical science were the three major pillars on which Judi based her personal and professional life. Gifted academically, she was successful in her career as a Medical Technologist and went on to manage Pathology laboratories.
She founded MARYPATH a charity that pioneered cervical cancer screening of women in the highlands and remote areas of Papua New Guinea, which earned her a nomination to Senior Citizen of the Year.
Judi’s three children, John, Michele and Penny are all successful in their lives and chosen careers. She has nine grandchildren. It is sadly ironic that after decades in pathology and hematology it was a blood disease, leukaemia, that ended a caring and remarkable life.
Ross higgins
14.06.1931 - 07.10.2016
Ross Higgins was a loving husband to Nadine and his family, and a true icon of the Australian entertainment industry, with success and popularity in radio, television, voiceovers, stage and film.
Educated by the Jesuits at St Aloysius’ College at Kirribilli, he went on to a successful 60 years in show business, first in radio, then TV with the legendary sitcom “Kingswood Country” and numerous other shows.
Ross was married to Nadine for 61 years, and he enjoyed a friendship with and a deep respect for Fr Paul Coleman, whose prayers were a source of peace and comfort to Ross and his family.
RAY JONES
14.12.1935 – 11.07.2016
Raymond Arthur Jones – a champion of our hearts, a great mate to all – ‘our Ray of Sunshine’! Loving and beloved husband of Evelyne. Cherished father of Lanneke and Amalia, and proud Nonno of Jeremy, Allegra and Luka.
Ray was an innovative Engineer, Inventor and Creator of beautiful buildings and classic cars – a Horseman, Trainer and Endurance Rider.
Ray was a Racer of Vintage Cars at Le Mans, Goodwood, USA and UK – an industrialist, Property Developer and Manufacturer – a Jazz afficianado, and producer of music.
Generous and Loving.
margaret murphy ibwm
09.08.1940 – 23.03.2015
“Goodness is measured by what we embrace, what we create, and who we include.”
Marg embraced a life of love and care and service from the time of her early years of nursing leading into her lifelong commitment and dedication to the IBVMs. Throughout the years and well away from public gaze Marg quietly created safe havens, safe gatherings for people from all walks of life who were struggling with difficult issues.
Similarly, during her many years working alongside Fr. Paul providing pastoral care at the Mater, Marg’s innate sensitivity, her kindness, her trustworthiness, and her respectful manner helped to create sacred personal spaces of comfort and support for the patients and staff.
And finally ‘inclusion’. Marg’s strong faith and deep spirituality were evident to all of us who knew her. She lived her faith each day in prayerful and in practical ways. There were no barriers to the care, the guidance and support that she gave to the countless women and men who came to her. Marg welcomed the stranger as guest, faithful to the teachings of Our Lord. By this measure and every other, Marg was a very good woman indeed, and we were blessed to have known her company.
FATHER NOEL CONNOLY SSC
24.01.1945 - 06.06.2020
Noel Connolly was a Columban missionary priest. Since his ordination in 1969, he had served in many countries as a missionary, most notably in Korea from 1970-1974, which then led to his becoming the founding Chaplain to the Korean Catholic Community in Sydney.
He was Rector of the Pacific Mission Institute, Vicar General of the Columbans throughout the world and Director of the Columbans in Australia and New Zealand. In recent years he has been a Lecturer and the Head of, Mission and Culture at the Catholic Institute of Sydney and lectured in mission at the BBI - Australian Institute of Theological Formation.
His major role now is as a member of the Facilitation Team of the Plenary Council 2020.
Having lived with cancer for the past few years Noel died peacefully on 6th June 2020. May he now enjoy the fullness of life with his Maker.
May eternal peace be yours Noel. You will be missed.
JOAN McCREANOR [Nee Ford]
09.08.1939 – 20.04.2021
Joan spent her formative years in Mosman, attending Loretto Kirribilli where her love of sport and the arts came to the fore. Throughout her life she found a natural balance between her natural flare for sport and the arts and her true calling to be a devoted wife to Kevin and a very loving mother to Phillip, Peter, Greg and Kate. She looked to our Lord for her inspiration and through the intercession of Saint Mary McKillop and her undoubted courage, she overcame serious health issues to play a very important role in the lives of her grandchildren especially Jack and Sophie as well as taking up a very active role in the Neutral Bay Church. May she rest in peace.
KEVIN McCREANOR
11.01.1934 -17.05 2023
Kevin’s early life was defined by the untimely death of his father when he was a young boy. Raised by his inspirational mother, due to financial pressures he entered the workforce prematurely. Adhering to his mother’s guidance that if you wear a decent suit and have a clean pair of shoes nobody needs to know where you come from, he rose rapidly to the top of the commodity trading industry where he stayed until his retirement.
He had a love of sport and music which lives through his children and grandchildren today. His true vocation in life, however, was to be a devoted husband to Joan. His love and support for her combined with his unwavering faith in our Lord was inspirational during her health issues. His life’s work and the example he set leave a significant legacy for the generations that follow His was a long life very well lived. May he rest in peace.
PATRICK LEWIS
24.10.1970 – 11.08.2021
“All Hail the Conquering Hero’
I don’t recall a Sunday growing up, where my parents didn’t ‘strongly’ encourage us to attend one of my uncle’s masses…From a quick 30-minute wrap up at Canisius House led by Gerald to a more distinguished and elaborate celebration at one of Paul’s congregations across the North Shore – supporting the Jesuit’s in our family was deeply embedded in our value system and the Lewis way of life – but for Dad as the years and family members passed, he truly found his home, his sense of belonging and his identity within the nurturing and trusting community of St Joseph’s parish.
Dad so deeply cherished the many cups of tea, slices of cakes, pray groups, ministerial commitments, circles of conversations, giggles ( and gossip…..) and the meaningful check-in’s and catch ups through crisis, heartache, celebration and joy, that was so beautifully interwoven within the shared love and word of God at St Joseph’s.
Dad provided warmth and support to his friends, colleagues, and family members, leading by example by placing others before him and was always so very present in shared spaces.
An exceptional father, grandfather, treasured husband, beloved brother and brother-in-law and close friend and confident to many at St Josephs – may we remember him.